"No Longer Slaves, but Sons (Galatians 3:23-4:7), Will DuVal | 9/28/25

Galatians 3:23-4:7 | 9/28/25 | Will DuVal

I will never forget the story of how we came to adopt our son Elijah. For starters, we were originally matched with another birth mom who backed OUT of the adoption the day her son was born. At the time, Polly and I felt betrayed, angry, CHEATED, but God had other plans; that boy was NOT our son. 

It would be another 4 months before we would meet him. We had our tickets to fly out to Utah for Elijah’s birth on March 18, 2020. And then the WORLD came grinding to a halt. So we DROVE instead, over 20 hours, amidst rumors that the INTERSTATES were all gonna shut down. But NOTHING was gonna keep us from our son. 

Those 24 hours after he was born were some of the most anxious of our lives, and not just because Salt Lake City suffered its worst earthquake in over 50 years on the morning Elijah was born… WHILE this deadly VIRUS continued to spread; we truly thought the WORLD was ending: plagues, earthquakes, there were even reports out of Africa of the worst brood of LOCUSTS in over a century; we thought: “This is IT! He’s coming BACK!” 

But NONE of that was our greatest source of uncertainty; by law, Elijah’s birth mom had to wait 24 hrs before she could sign over her parental rights. So we held him, changed him, rocked him, kissed him… all without knowing whether or not he would truly be OURS. 

Until FINALLY we got the phone call. Waiting anxiously in our cheap motel room, the phone rang, and our adoption consultant said those two beautiful words: “She signed.” And we cried tears of joy. 


But there’s more to the story. Because legally, we were supposed to wait for BOTH the state of Utah AND the state of Missouri to sign off on the “Interstate Compact on the Placement of Children” to receive permission to cross state LINES with our new son. But both state governments were completely SHUT DOWN! So after 4 more days of waiting, we called the adoption agency back and they said, “Just GO for it; technically, it’s kidnapping. But WE, the AGENCY, now have parental rights, and WE give you permission.” 


But the story doesn’t even end THERE. Because we had to wait another 6 MONTHS before the agency could sign those rights over to US. Typically it’s this HUGE occasion, where you invite all your extended family down to the courthouse, and get all dressed up for the official ceremony… but they were STILL shut down. So they said, “We’ll CALL ya, between 8 and 5.” More waiting. But some time mid-morning, Polly’s phone rang, I rushed in the room, we put the judge on speaker phone, and he asked us: 

“Why do you want to adopt this child?”

“You’ve cared for him for 6 months now; are you prepared to do so for the rest of your LIVES?” 

“Do you vow, under OATH, to afford this child ALL of the rights and privileges you would give your own biological children?”

“Then by the power invested in me by the state of Missouri…”


And on September 28, 2020, there in our bedroom, still in our pajamas, we officially became Elijah’s parents. And our lives - and even more so: HIS life - was forever changed. 


If you want a one sentence SUMMARY of our passage for this morning from the book of Galatians, spanning from the end of ch3 (last 7 verses) thru the beginning of ch4 (FIRST 7 verses), it would be THIS: 

“When God ADOPTS us as his CHILDREN, our lives are FOREVER CHANGED.” 

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