"A Good Goodbye (Acts 20:1-21:14)" | 8/7/22

Acts 20:1-21:14 | 8/7/22 | Will DuVal

When I was 7 or 8 years old, my favorite cousin Jenny moved from VA to spend a full year living with my family in TN, as she finished up nursing school. And I can still remember when she graduated and the day finally arrived for her to move back out, all standing together in our big foyer, saying our goodbyes. And having recently watched Home Alone, I believe it was, I decided to try out a NEW farewell send-off I’d learned; so I looked Jenny in the eyes, and sincerely, but innocently wished her, “GOOD RIDDANCE”. (Fortunately, before my father could spank me, Jenny gently explained that “good riddance” was NOT just a fancier way of saying “Good luck”.)

Not one of my finer “Goodbyes”. Well, as we continue our study through the book of Acts this morning, and we come to the end not only of Paul’s missionary journeys (as he returns home from his third and final mission trip in ch21), but we’ll ALSO be starting the beginning of the end of the entire BOOK of Acts, because chs21-28 form one long, continuous story detailing Paul’s arrest, his multiple trials, and his extradition to ROME, where he will ultimately be put to death by the Emperor Nero around 64AD. So chs20 and 21 this morning are kind of like Paul’s “Farewell Tour”, as he travels back through many of the regions where he has planted churches, saying his last “Goodbyes”. And I believe Paul has a thing or two - or FIVE! - to teach us, about what makes for a “Good Goodbye”. 

They say, “All good things must come to an end”. And we have ALL no doubt experienced this painful truth, personally

The end of an important relationship, as a loved one passes away. 

The end of a sweet season of life, as you move towns, and have to start all over.

Or as you launch your kids out into the world; say “Goodbye” as they head off to college

Our lives are FILLED with difficult “Goodbyes”. And yet, they ALSO say, “It’s not how you start, but how you FINISH that matters.” We want to finish strong. And that includes, a good goodbye. 


So I hope this message will be extremely practical for you, but not MERELY practical; that it would be deeply theological as well. Because one day, eventually, everything that you and I see and touch and experience and love here on earth WILL come to an end. Either because we DIED, and said goodbye to this world for good, OR because the universe ITSELF “burned up and dissolved”, as 2 Peter 3 tells us it one day will. WHICHEVER comes first - your death, or the universe’s, upon Christ’s return - the question for you and me is the same: “Will we be READY?” Ready to say a “good goodbye” to this life, in this world, because we are so confident in both the legacy we’re leaving behind us, as well as the future we’re stepping into?

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