Ask the Pastors S6 E10: “Talking to Your Kids about Faith, Baptism, Communion, and Church pt.1”

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Welcome to Ask the Pastors a segment of the West Hills Podcast where you have the opportunity to ask your questions and receive biblically grounded, pastorally sensitive answers from our pastoral staff. My name is Brian, I'm your host and one of the pastors on staff and this week's special episode will be part one of two that was recorded at a breakout session at our recent foundation's parenting conference. This breakout was led by our lead pastor Will and was titled, talking to Your Kids about Faith, baptism, communion and Church. Here's the first half of that session.

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Alright, so let's dive in. How do I explain the gospel to my blank year old child? My child professes faith in Jesus, but how do I know if he or she is really ready for baptism? Shall I let my child take communion if she or he professes faith but hasn't been baptized yet? Is it better for my child to receive age appropriate teaching in kids' ministry or attend big church with mom and dad? That's kind of the setup how I tried to teaser pitch this breakout. So I do intend and hope to make good on my promise to answer each of those questions eventually, hopefully, and maybe even a few others related to them that are on your minds. But at a high level, my goal over the next 50 minutes is to help us think through or at least tee up a conversation to discuss through as my title suggests, how to talk to our kids about four things, faith, baptism, communion, i a, the Lord's Supper and church and I'm going to go very fast through each of 'em.

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Normally I'd say interrupt me. I do miss one of the worst things about preaching is I don't get to teach anymore in small group settings more like this. I wish that I had structured this to pause and take questions as we go. I didn't, I'm just used to writing sermons now, so I'm just going to monologue for probably 40 ish minutes of this. I'm going to try and keep it on average less than 10 minutes, a piece on each of those four topics. Save at least 10 minutes for q and a at the end, so that's my hope. I'm going to see if we can keep it moving quickly. That is most important to me is that you all get your actual real questions answered. I try of course to anticipate and answer a few of the big recurring ones that I get often as a pastor, but want to hear your actual questions as well.

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So we'll try and save time if we don't, obviously I'll hang around for a minute after the breakout. Email me, set up a meeting, whatever. I'm happy to always discuss that. Love that. So four big categories to cover with each of 'em. I'm going to try and address two things. What we believe here as a church and how to explain what we believe to your child should note two important things about what I just said and my outline, my objective. First, I do not intend to address why we believe what we believe. Just simply don't time too many big topics. We could spend way more than 50 minutes on each one of these. Just don't have time to give you the whole sort of biblical explanation. The short answer is we believe all the things that we believe because the Bible says so and so we're going to just mainly cut straight to our statement of faith as a church and give you that and then try and just simply unpack and apply it together from a parenting perspective in particular.

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Second thing to note, as I said, I'm just name it, I'm coming at this from a perspective of what we believe here as a church looking around again, couple of y'all I know are not here at West Stills. If this conference was hosted by one of my buddies, Presbyterian churches down the road, they might have very different take on at least number two there. Baptism, we'll talk about that. So just keep that in mind. If you're not a west tillian, if you are churchless, we'd love to have you come worship with us tomorrow. Quick plug for that. So let's dive in. Number one, how do I talk to my child about faith? And we're going to begin there because it is most important. Every Christian parent's greatest prayer, most persistent, urgent prayer for each one of our kids of course must be that they would come to true, genuine, lasting life-changing eternity, defining, saving faith in Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior.

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